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Completely Unimportant Things That Have Improved My Life Dramatically

By Robin February 25, 2026Changes, Divorce and heartache, Love, Self Care, Skin care and beautyNo Comments

(a highly scientific list) No one tells you that happiness is mostly made of tiny, ridiculous upgrades. Completely Unimportant Things That Have Improved My Life Dramatically are worthy of a…

Things That Feel Like Home Lately

By Robin January 20, 2026Changes, Divorce and heartache, Love, Memories, Self Care

Home is not always a physical place Lately, home hasn’t been a place so much as a feeling. It shows up quietly. Unexpectedly. Usually when I’m not looking for it.…

🌴 Leaning Into My Feminine Energy

By Robin November 18, 2025Changes, Love, Self Care

photo Lately, I’ve been learning how to slow down and lean into my feminine energy. Not in the “cancel everything and hide under a blanket” way, but in a way…

It’s Weird, But It’s Good

By Robin November 3, 2025Changes, Divorce and heartache, Love1 Comment

There’s a new chapter fluttering in the pages of my Coconut Bird story — one I didn’t quite see coming. It’s funny how life sneaks up on you when you’re…

Building My Fun TikTok Account: Sharing Life, Laughs, and Single Woman Insights

By Robin August 26, 2025Changes, Divorce and heartache, Self Care, Skin care and beauty, Work1 Comment

If you know me from The Coconut Bird, you already know I love creating spaces that feel fun, light, and a little bit cheeky. Recently, I decided to bring that energy to TikTok — and it’s quickly becoming one of my favorite creative outlets.

How to Say No Without Feeling Guilty — My Year of Boundaries at 58

By Robin August 13, 2025Changes, Self Care1 Comment

I just turned 58, and this year I’m giving myself the best gift ever: the freedom to say “no” without feeling guilty — no excuses, no lengthy explanations, no overthinking

Looking to make the move to Hawaii?

By Robin February 17, 2025Changes, Divorce and heartache, Self Care1 Comment

The Best Buildings to Live in Honolulu for Single Women Over 50 Looking to make the move to Hawaii? So,you’re single, fabulous, and over 50, and you’re thinking of making…

Going Back to My Maiden Name and Back to Myself

By Robin January 27, 2025Changes, Divorce and heartache, Love, Self Care

Changing my name back to my maiden name was not an easy decision. It feels good to start this journey for myself.

A new job after 10 years

By Robin November 14, 2024Changes, Work

Hello, friends! Life brings changes, that's for sure. It was time to shake up my life a bit, and so I did . I'm excited to share some updates about…

My Side Hustle – but it’s important

By Robin July 2, 2024Changes, Work

You may or may not know that for the past 4 years I have had my own Review Management company. I get asked what in the world I do so…