When the Spark Doesn’t Show Up
I went on a date recently. It was a first date. I had high hopes. They were quickly deflated. No sparks and no connection, at all. There’s a quiet kind…
Completely Unimportant Things That Have Improved My Life Dramatically
(a highly scientific list) No one tells you that happiness is mostly made of tiny, ridiculous upgrades. Completely Unimportant Things That Have Improved My Life Dramatically are worthy of a…
Things That Feel Like Home Lately
Home is not always a physical place Lately, home hasn’t been a place so much as a feeling. It shows up quietly. Unexpectedly. Usually when I’m not looking for it.…
🌴 Leaning Into My Feminine Energy
photo Lately, I’ve been learning how to slow down and lean into my feminine energy. Not in the “cancel everything and hide under a blanket” way, but in a way…
It’s Weird, But It’s Good
There’s a new chapter fluttering in the pages of my Coconut Bird story — one I didn’t quite see coming. It’s funny how life sneaks up on you when you’re…
Building My Fun TikTok Account: Sharing Life, Laughs, and Single Woman Insights
If you know me from The Coconut Bird, you already know I love creating spaces that feel fun, light, and a little bit cheeky. Recently, I decided to bring that energy to TikTok — and it’s quickly becoming one of my favorite creative outlets.
How to Say No Without Feeling Guilty — My Year of Boundaries at 58
I just turned 58, and this year I’m giving myself the best gift ever: the freedom to say “no” without feeling guilty — no excuses, no lengthy explanations, no overthinking
Looking to make the move to Hawaii?
The Best Buildings to Live in Honolulu for Single Women Over 50 Looking to make the move to Hawaii? So,you’re single, fabulous, and over 50, and you’re thinking of making…
Going Back to My Maiden Name and Back to Myself
Changing my name back to my maiden name was not an easy decision. It feels good to start this journey for myself.
A new job after 10 years
Hello, friends! Life brings changes, that's for sure. It was time to shake up my life a bit, and so I did . I'm excited to share some updates about…
My Side Hustle – but it’s important
You may or may not know that for the past 4 years I have had my own Review Management company. I get asked what in the world I do so…
