When the Spark Doesn’t Show Up
I went on a date recently. It was a first date. I had high hopes. They were quickly deflated. No sparks and no connection, at all. There’s a quiet kind…
Completely Unimportant Things That Have Improved My Life Dramatically
(a highly scientific list) No one tells you that happiness is mostly made of tiny, ridiculous upgrades. Completely Unimportant Things That Have Improved My Life Dramatically are worthy of a…
Things That Feel Like Home Lately
Home is not always a physical place Lately, home hasn’t been a place so much as a feeling. It shows up quietly. Unexpectedly. Usually when I’m not looking for it.…
It’s Weird, But It’s Good
There’s a new chapter fluttering in the pages of my Coconut Bird story — one I didn’t quite see coming. It’s funny how life sneaks up on you when you’re…
Building My Fun TikTok Account: Sharing Life, Laughs, and Single Woman Insights
If you know me from The Coconut Bird, you already know I love creating spaces that feel fun, light, and a little bit cheeky. Recently, I decided to bring that energy to TikTok — and it’s quickly becoming one of my favorite creative outlets.
Main Character Energy
What does Romanticize mean The happiness from Romanticizing Your Life: How to Make Every Day Feel Like a Dream Romanticizing your life and how to make it feel like a…
Looking to make the move to Hawaii?
The Best Buildings to Live in Honolulu for Single Women Over 50 Looking to make the move to Hawaii? So,you’re single, fabulous, and over 50, and you’re thinking of making…
Going Back to My Maiden Name and Back to Myself
Changing my name back to my maiden name was not an easy decision. It feels good to start this journey for myself.
The ways I have changed since my divorce
I like who I am. Years ago, in my 20's, 30's and 40's I was not able to say that. First of all, I really had no idea who I…
Selling my things for the big move to Hawaii
Selling my car was so easy. I used Carvana and they made it so simple. The price is set, no back and forth which I loved. They have you answer…
Life changes and stays the same
I fell in love..again. This past Summer, I reconnected with someone from my past. He was the last person I dated before dating my ex-husband. I will call him…
The ramblling of my thoughts
I do a lot of thinking...I wish I didn't. I was driving today and had random thoughts running through my head. I wondered why it is my ex-husband dislikes me…
23 YEARS
Today would have been my 23 wedding anniversary. This is my first one since the divorce. Very strange. Very sad. I will always love Chad, I guess the old saying…
HEARTBREAK OF A TEENAGER
Both of my daughters have recently been hurt and are feeling sad. I hate feeling and being helpless. I would gladly take the pain from them if I could. These…
