The Coconut Bird

Completely Unimportant Things That Have Improved My Life Dramatically

By Robin February 25, 2026Changes, Divorce and heartache, Love, Self Care, Skin care and beautyNo Comments

(a highly scientific list) No one tells you that happiness is mostly made of tiny, ridiculous upgrades. Completely Unimportant Things That Have Improved My Life Dramatically are worthy of a…

Things That Feel Like Home Lately

By Robin January 20, 2026Changes, Divorce and heartache, Love, Memories, Self Care

Home is not always a physical place Lately, home hasn’t been a place so much as a feeling. It shows up quietly. Unexpectedly. Usually when I’m not looking for it.…

Disappointed, Not Heartbroken: What Happens When a Man Can’t Match Your Energy

By Robin December 2, 2025Love, Self Care

I had this short, bright little romance recently — the kind that comes in like warm light through a window and makes you think, “Huh. Maybe this could actually become…

🌴 Leaning Into My Feminine Energy

By Robin November 18, 2025Changes, Love, Self Care

photo Lately, I’ve been learning how to slow down and lean into my feminine energy. Not in the “cancel everything and hide under a blanket” way, but in a way…

It’s Weird, But It’s Good

By Robin November 3, 2025Changes, Divorce and heartache, Love1 Comment

There’s a new chapter fluttering in the pages of my Coconut Bird story — one I didn’t quite see coming. It’s funny how life sneaks up on you when you’re…

Building My Fun TikTok Account: Sharing Life, Laughs, and Single Woman Insights

By Robin August 26, 2025Changes, Divorce and heartache, Self Care, Skin care and beauty, Work1 Comment

If you know me from The Coconut Bird, you already know I love creating spaces that feel fun, light, and a little bit cheeky. Recently, I decided to bring that energy to TikTok — and it’s quickly becoming one of my favorite creative outlets.

How to Say No Without Feeling Guilty — My Year of Boundaries at 58

By Robin August 13, 2025Changes, Self Care1 Comment

I just turned 58, and this year I’m giving myself the best gift ever: the freedom to say “no” without feeling guilty — no excuses, no lengthy explanations, no overthinking

Bouncing Back from the Slump: Skincare & Comfy Vibes to Lift My Spirits! 🌴✨

By Robin April 14, 2025Self Care, Skin care and beauty, Uncategorized, Work1 Comment

Hey Coconut Bird Fam! 🥥🌸 Okay, real talk: we all go through those rough patches, right? Lately, I’ve been dealing with some job loss slump (yup, that’s life sometimes!), but…

Main Character Energy

By Robin March 18, 2025Divorce and heartache, Love, Self Care1 Comment

What does Romanticize mean The happiness from Romanticizing Your Life: How to Make Every Day Feel Like a Dream Romanticizing your life and how to make it feel like a…

Scrub-a-Dub-Dub, Meet Your New Shower BFF: Spongelle!

By Robin March 3, 2025Self Care, Skin care and beauty

Scrub-a-Dub-Dub, Meet Your New Shower BFF: Spongellé! Listen up, my fellow shower connoisseurs! If you’re still fumbling around with a loofah that looks like it’s seen better days (let’s be…

Looking to make the move to Hawaii?

By Robin February 17, 2025Changes, Divorce and heartache, Self Care1 Comment

The Best Buildings to Live in Honolulu for Single Women Over 50 Looking to make the move to Hawaii? So,you’re single, fabulous, and over 50, and you’re thinking of making…

Going Back to My Maiden Name and Back to Myself

By Robin January 27, 2025Changes, Divorce and heartache, Love, Self Care

Changing my name back to my maiden name was not an easy decision. It feels good to start this journey for myself.

The Benefits of Sea Moss Gel for Health

By Robin January 13, 2025Self Care, Skin care and beauty, Uncategorized

Sea moss has been a new daily routine and i love how it makes me feel.

A new job after 10 years

By Robin November 14, 2024Changes, Work

Hello, friends! Life brings changes, that's for sure. It was time to shake up my life a bit, and so I did . I'm excited to share some updates about…

My Side Hustle – but it’s important

By Robin July 2, 2024Changes, Work

You may or may not know that for the past 4 years I have had my own Review Management company. I get asked what in the world I do so…

Aloha from My Island Office- Life in Hawaii

By Robin March 7, 2024Love, Uncategorized

Hey there, fellow island souls! Life in Hawaii is a lot like catching waves – wild, unpredictable, and full of surprises. Let's dive into the sun-soaked mishmash of working remotely…

My Little Dog

By Robin June 16, 2023Love, Memories

My little dog Oliver deserves a little post of his own. Although small, like him, I needed to added a bit about him because he makes living my best life,…

Have a little PRIDE

By Robin June 1, 2023Love, Self Care

Why Pride Why Pride? What are the issues? LGBT pride (also known as gay pride or simply pride) is the promotion of the self- affirmation, dignity, equality and increased visibility of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) people as a social group.…

Completely Unimportant Things That Have Improved My Life Dramatically

Things That Feel Like Home Lately

Disappointed, Not Heartbroken: What Happens When a Man Can’t Match Your Energy

🌴 Leaning Into My Feminine Energy

It’s Weird, But It’s Good

Building My Fun TikTok Account: Sharing Life, Laughs, and Single Woman Insights

How to Say No Without Feeling Guilty — My Year of Boundaries at 58

Bouncing Back from the Slump: Skincare & Comfy Vibes to Lift My Spirits! 🌴✨

Main Character Energy

Scrub-a-Dub-Dub, Meet Your New Shower BFF: Spongelle!

Looking to make the move to Hawaii?

Going Back to My Maiden Name and Back to Myself

The Benefits of Sea Moss Gel for Health

A new job after 10 years

My Side Hustle – but it’s important

Aloha from My Island Office- Life in Hawaii

My Little Dog

Have a little PRIDE

Friday Night D&D

The ways I have changed since my divorce

Selling my things for the big move to Hawaii

I love your hair!

Tan Is My Happy Color

Living a Dream Life That Is Fit For You

Nuuly is my new obsession

Sunscreen is so important wear your sunscreen

For the love of skin care